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Alrighty then….
Dear Psycho ex-wife to my husband,
I don’t know who you think you are. You abandoned your children on more than one occasion and, even when you were a full-time mom, you still weren’t there for your kids. I am not sure why you don’t get that your girls don’t want to see you because of you. You are not the mother they want or need. It took no prompting from me or your (happily) ex-husband for them to decide that you weren’t worth the effort anymore. The drama you bring with you is too much… even for a 16 year old who lives a teenage life of drama. I used to feel bad for you that your kids wanted nothing to do with you. I don’t anymore. Sadly, you are still manipulating the youngest. That will eventually change and we all know it. At some point he will realize what you really are… which is not this great mom you try to pretend to be.
It is both sad and pathetic that you had to find this blog after so long by googling your daughter. Really… is that mother material there? You have to google your daughter to find out what? We all know you don’t care about her so are you trying to figure out if something you did in her name is catching up with you? Don’t pretend like you care about the girls. It doesn’t take a genius to realize that a mother who just writes her children out of her life doesn’t care. It is very obvious that the only person you care about is yourself.
That was proven today even. The kids have school tomorrow. You want to bring your son home late (after the game) when you know that he needs to get up in the morning. You try to play it off about how you have some class in the morning. I guess you forgot that you already lied about bringing him home after the game. It really is sad that you are such a liar that we can’t believe anything out of your mouth. Even worse that you fill your own child with lies and even tell lies that supposedly he says. You seem to forget that he is old enough to talk for himself. He is on to your lies. He goes to your house because you spend money on him. Ask him. He will tell you that the only reason he likes to spend time at your house is because the girls aren’t there. Of course we can’t give him the same attention. Of course we can’t buy him the things you do. Really, who could with the poor-excuse for support you give. And to act as though we should be happy that you give us support at all. Really. Get over yourself. You should be paying at least double what you are and you know it. Don’t do us any favors. I mean, it isn’t that you never see two of those children. Do you think you are covering their expenses for a month with what you pay? We have a 16 year old. You don’t even begin with that pathetic excuse for support.
One thing I keep wanting to tell you… you need to quit holding the medical insurance over your ex-husband’s head like it is some great thing you are doing. We are on to this game too. We know you have to put your husband’s child on your insurance. Do you honestly think we believe it is that much more for the other kids? There isn’t a judge around that would prefer for the kids to be covered under the insurance your ex-husband has. We don’t even have it. It is beyond expensive and doesn’t even have copays. You can and will get credit for that insurance when we go back to court but it certainly isn’t worth as much as you pretend. The kids don’t cost you that much extra. Think about how stupid you sound when you act holier-than-thou with this insurance crap.
You know the things you have done and it will all catch up to you someday. Until then, I just want you to know that I am sick of picking up the pieces for your children when you fail them. It amazes me how you take no responsibility for all that happened with Tayler. It amazes me that you take no responsibility for anything in your life. It is always someone else’s fault. I promise you that this will catch up with you. I am waiting anxiously for the day because I have been looking forward to it for a long time. You are doing things that you shouldn’t be. I bet you are reading this is on your WORK computer. Your employer doesn’t even know who you really are. It will happen though. I don’t care enough to pursue anything myself but you have made enough enemies in your life. I am not even necessary to bring you down.
Oh, fantastic. So you are evicted again? Nice. Where are you taking your son? Who do you think you are to not tell your ex-husband where his own son is on the weekend? You need help. You are not a stable environment for him. You have been evicted from every house you have ever been in… oh wait, you were foreclosed on the only one you ever owned. You don’t seem to get that it is all public record and you can’t pretend that you are buying all these houses. We know better. Anyone that knows how to use a computer knows.
I wish you would just leave me alone. Leave me and my kids alone, and by my kids, I mean the girls too. I am more of a mother to them than you have ever been. It is sad. Just sad. This is the last of this you will see. You stole the kids on taxes. You don’t pay your support the way you should. You can’t even buy your children Christmas gifts. You have no house to take the only child that will see you.
You are really not worth my time. I just needed to get this out because I refuse to talk to you. You can’t have the final say here. I won’t shut down this blog for you. You have no rights in regards to the kids. You can’t stop me from talking about my family. MY family. Why don’t you just worry about yourself for a change?
Sincerely,
A fed-up new wife
Vampic Munchausen says
Angelique Picillo (Baker, Kindel) “…about wanting to punch him, in my case I have..and it got me no where..” 5/1/06 #8706, http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/naranonsupport/
VampicSpew Munchausen says
http://www.west-springfield.ma.us/…/Feb.%202012/...
12-2214 1909 Domestic Disturbance
Feb 15, 2012 Arrest: 12-2214-AR Arrest: PICILLO, ANGELIQUE C…48 JANET ST WEST SPRINGFIELD, MA DOB: 11/11/1979 Charges: A&B (Assault and Battery)
VampicSpew Munchausen says
Angelique Picillo (Baker Kindel) PEOPLES COURT “You Don’t Find a Babysitter for an Infant on Craigslist!” Video CLIP…March 2012
https://www.facebook.com/?sk=welcome#!/photo.php?v=133516626807496&set=vb.100004474782214&type=2&theater
VampicSpew Munchausen says
Angelique Kindel (Picillo, Baker) http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/naranonsupport/
“I wanted him to hit rock bottom so bad that when someone would make a joke
like ‘hey I got a friend who would hurt him’ I was taking him seriously.I wanted his car destroyed..I wanted him hurt so that he could be in the hospital.. I put my son in harms way so many times by my driving or my yelling at him to get in the car faster so I could chase after Jason..I knew what I was doing was wrong and crazy……I used to get so upset that I would yell at my son and I would drive erratically or couldnt’ function or
thought of all sorts of things to get back at him..” 4/15/06 #8420.
Nicolle B. says
Good for you sista! I’m glad you were able to get that off your chest! I’m so sorry you and you girls have to deal with that. I can’t stand people like that.
Amanda (Garibay Soup) says
Good for you, Stef!!!!!! Any mother that doesn’t put her kids first in life is TRASH to me. It makes me ABSOLUTELY sick!
I hope she read this!
bebe says
wish she could have read this., lol
bebe says
HAHAHA> this has been a LONG time coming…… you really need to call and update me.
hollowsins says
You tell her..enough is enough.I have to say you were much more polite in your handling of this then I was in mine!A mother is the one who holds her children when they cry,who would give anything for them..and does daily,who would fight to the death to save her children.Giving birth does not make you a mother,but your choices and actions do!
Randa says
Good for you! We all need venting!
Robyns Online World says
I haven’t ever had to deal with a situation like this thankfully, but I hope that things get easier for you, and especially for all the kids. {{HUGS}}
Cheryl says
Good for you Stefany! I am so glad you were able to get all that out! It seems as if you have been holding that in for so long. Your family is very lucky to have you. You are an amazing women!
Jen H says
Kudos Stef! You know how horrible it has been dealing with Sean’s exwife. I love his daughter as much as I love my own children. I dont understand why ex wifes cant be happy that their children have another person in their life to love their children, and stop worrying about what the new woman has that she doesnt. Its completely ridiculous. Good for you to tell her like it is and that Mike stands by you. It makes a huge difference when you both are on the same page in regards to psycho ex wives!!
<3 you!
Kara says
A-fricking-men!! These psycho ex-wifes need to get on with themselves, and quit calling themselves a mother, when all they care about themselves. Kudos to you for sticking up for you and the girls.
And remember this:
“Anyone can be called a mother, but it takes someone special to be a mom.”
Thank God for your stepping up and being their mom. They will forever remember what you have done for them, and what their “bio” mom never did.
xoxo